I told my boyfriend that I might have skin cancer. I told him because I currently study in a different city and don’t live with my family anymore, so I needed comfort.
I went to my GP appointment, came back and he said “Tell Mum, because she doesn’t believe me” .... I asked him “tell her what”, he replied “ that you think you have cancer”
.... ???
Ummm, I really wished he hadn’t told his mum without at least asking me if it was ok. I know she meant well but she began giving me unsolicited advice. I felt helpless, she then asked when my next appointment was and insisted that her son went with me. He even just booked a day off without even asking me if I wanted him to come with me.
Again, she probably meant well but this is my life. Not only that but I asked my boyfriend who else knows about my cancer worries and he says that he’s only told his Mum. But then how younger brother mentioned it once to me so he knows.
Furthermore, my boyfriend has an older brother whom I am not fond of, him nor his partner. Just because of they way they’ve mistreated my boyfriend in the past, i don’t want to be around those kinds of people. My boyfriend, his mother and younger brother always gossips and complain about the older brother and his partner, ALWAYS, they’re always so happy when they leave after visiting.
Anyway the point i’m getting at is that I think my bfs mum told her oldest son (and his gf) about my cancer worries. And that’s makes me so angry, she doesn’t go to work and gossips when she can.
What do I do ?
TLDR I might have cancer, confided in my boyfriend, he told his mother, his mother told her oldest son and his partner (whom she insults about daily and whom i don’t like). I haven’t even told my own mother and father yet my boyfriend gossiped to other people (idc if it’s his mum, i confided in him )
Submitted March 27, 2019 at 02:34AM by moonlightair https://ift.tt/2YsBkDQ
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