We’ve been together for 10 years. Through it all, I’ve finished my degree, found a good job, became financially stable, and he... Came along for the ride.
He has suffered pitfalls through that years that have definitely hindered his development (mental illness, family issues, job instability, etc.) but I’ve reached a point where I want to move on in life, and he isn’t in a place where he can progress with me. I’ve waited 10 years for him to get his shit together, finish a degree or trade program and just become an adult with me, but in so many ways he is still the 21 year old I met years ago. I’m tired.
I know I want to end things, need to, but he still loves me deeply, and he’s told me before that I’m the only good thing in his life. How do I split our lives when he still considers me his world?
Tldr: Longterm boyfriend still in love and codependent, how do I end things without completely devastating him?
Submitted December 28, 2018 at 07:03AM by throwitaway462649261 http://bit.ly/2AlhfoF
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