My boyfriend (29m) earns much more than me (24f) and wants us to have a lifestyle I (24f) can't afford

We have been living together for 2 years now, 9 years long relationship.

He is an engineer working for his family's huge company and I work as a kindergarten educator. He earns 6 times my salay.

We split all the costs (flat, food, going out, trips etc) 50:50 and I think it is fair. But it means that in the end of the month I save 0 and he saves more than half of his salary. So recently he started pushing me to go with him to restaurants, trips etc I can't really afford. He wants us to move to a bigger flat which is too expensive for me.

I told him it is impossible for me to afford these extra expenses but he always insists on me doing stuff with him. For example, he said we should have a trip to France next holidays, I replied that it is ok if I will have money. His reply was: 'Well I have money and want to see it. Can't you just save more or ask your family to give you?' I said no way and then he offered to borrow me which is also out of the question (because I have no idea when I can pay it back).

I don't know how to solve this problem.

Tl;dr: My boyfriend (29m) earns much more than me (24f) and wants us to have a lifestyle I (24f) can't afford

Submitted November 15, 2018 at 07:34AM by Reddituserxxx0 https://ift.tt/2QQ21OI