I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With Hints

Girls suck at taking hints.

This has happened a couple times for me. I thought you could gauge your "alphaness" by the girls you're hooking up with. We hear on here that girls are the lagging indicator of success so there's some merit to it, right? Turns out you can't do that either because a girl getting rejected will hamster her way into thinking you're not a man after all.

I like sluts. I've met a few girls with high ASD which would be fine if I had the patience to blast through them but I'm impatient so I soft next (on good terms). I thought girls were supposed to be good with hints. These girls didn't grab the hint of me not replying and end up texting/email/calling or even showing up at my place for one last "is he into me?" confrontation.

She showed up unexpected while I had a bro over. We were busy fixing something and she had some questions so I said go for it. She's trying to get me to ask her out again or something but I've moved onto other girls. She's pandering for attention/my interest. I forget what I said but it was a cue for her to go. She stood there for two long seconds with a frozen smile on her face before giggling and saying "dummy" and left.

She honestly thinks I didn't get why she was there. She honestly never took any of the hints I gave her.

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Another girl I was seeing has not STOPPED texting/calling so much so I finally gave in and started sending sappy feel-good songs to her hoping she would creep out and bounce. I gave her every rejection I could. Even stood her up. She uses this as her opener to text me. "Hey haven't heard from you since you stood me up. How are you?"

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I thought it would be cool to have girl stalkers but they don't take hints. And when you finally get them to leave you alone their solipsism rules themselves out of the equation ("I'm amazing it can't be me!") and they think you're a dumbass beta.

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Take away is this: If you're making progress girls can still be stupid and miss cues, blaming you. Don't ever put your value into women's judgement. One day you're the bees knees, the next you're yesterdays news. One minute she's your fan girl, the next you're a dummy. Their judgement is skewed by their feelings. Don't be demoralized by their misjudgement.

Submitted August 29, 2018 at 10:23AM by awalt_cupcake https://ift.tt/2N3aGhO