I know in advance that this is a selfish and frankly kind of petty problem but this is starting to kind of affect our sex life, tmi I know, because I just constantly feel so unattractive.
To put a longish story short, my boyfriend likes insanely curvy "thicc" girls. Like gigantic boobs and thighs and huge butts but mostly flat stomachs. The porn he looks at is all of girls that look like that. I don't look like that or anywhere near it. I dont have small boobs, but they're proportional to my body so they just look average. I dont have a nice butt, and my thighs are big but not in a nice way so I just wear jeans all the time. I most definitely do not have a flat stomach. I'm the complete opposite of what he apparently finds attractive and everytime I see him 'like' a picture of some half naked girl who almost looks like a caricature of "the ideal woman" shape wise I feel like shit because it makes me question if he even likes looking at me.
How do I get over this? I read this sub a lot on my main account and i know that a lot of people are quick to jump to "he doesnt respect you, break up with him". I just want to stress that he is an insanely sweet guy who tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, it's just hard for me to believe it because I'm not them and I never will be. This is completely in my head and is a me problem, it has nothing to do with him making me feel less than intentionally. Just wanted to point that out.
Tl;dr: I am not my boyfriend's ideal body type and it makes me insecure. How do I get over this?
Submitted August 29, 2018 at 01:14PM by perkeleator https://ift.tt/2NyTsWV
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