(F31) have been dating this single dad (M43) for 10 months. LDR until very recently. Official couple.
He regularly tells me how he thinks I'm fun, wonderful and all that, but I find myself insecure in the relationship. He checks on with me daily through text and plans dates. So what's the problem?
- I have met very few of his folks. I've met his 3 y.o son three times and his mom twice. I've brought it up a couple of times and he just said I'll happen naturally now that we live in the same city.
However there's been a couple of family events in his family and he didn't invite me. They know of me so I guess I'm not "hidden" I feel as if he keeps a certain distance between me and his folks.
- Calling. Despite this being an LDR until the past couple of weeks, we have spoken on the phone only a handful of times, usually for planning. I know he frequently speaks to friends on the phone but I only ever get texts which makes me wonder if he misses me as much as I miss him.
The fact that he is a single dad plays a role, I feel like an outsider because he has a child with another woman and while I adore his kid, this just won't work for me it I don't feel more "included" in his inner circle anytime soon. Maybe I'm being impatient? I don't know anymore.
Any advice is appreciated.
Tl;Dr feeling insecure in my relationship because I want to be included in his inner circle so badly.
Submitted January 13, 2023 at 01:46PM by Thirstyparasite https://ift.tt/k6NZ9Av
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