Friend's BF wants her to spend 70% of their time with his family, 30% alone time. Is this fair/normal?

My friend and her BF, both in their twenties, had to leave a hangout early so they could eat dinner with his family, even though they already ate dinner during the hangout. Family dinner is a regular thing in his house and they will be upset with him for not attending. He also has a 9pm curfew. When she asked for more one-on-one time, he said she needs to spend even more time with his family. A ratio of 70% family time to 30% alone time. Moreover, she feels like he has been greatly rushing their relationship. How long is "too long," and how soon would "too soon" be in regards to family introduction?

TLDR: friend's BF seems to have unusual standards and I wanted to hear other opinions

Submitted January 29, 2023 at 01:04AM by potatosimulation https://ift.tt/GEHlZIm