I (25F) have been dating 'Robert' (32M) for almost the last 5 months. He treats me real nice, cares for me, and is sweet. All is well, aside from we're not friends on Facebook, and only communicate through Telegram. ( I don't have IG or other social media acct). I let it slide because I do have trust in him, and it's not in my nature to stalk or look at his 'private stuff'.
I almost spend every day crashing at his place (which I paid) because he requested to. Come this Monday, we are both preparing for work, and I'm looking for the house key. I looked into his bag (which I don't normally do), then I found a Cash Card under the name of 'Michael'. My instincts kick in, and I search the name on FB. Then 'BOOM' a profile picture of him with a girl shows up (his GF for a long time now).
I did show him my phone, then immediately pack my stuff. I didn't give him a chance to explain, coz 'What for?'. And broke up with him. He lied about his NAME, him being single, and who knows what.
When I start dating him, all my friends asked me why. He's not the type of guy I usually date. And when he got laid off at his job, I supported him financially, emotionally, etc... I gave him everything.
I know I don't deserve a person like him.
It just hurts (my ego??) coz I invest soo much in him. And it is my first time to be cheated on (hopefully the last one too). I'm trying to process my feelings, but I truly don't feel anything for him right now. Not even anger. But it gets to my self-confidence.
TL;DR: My boyfriend of 5mos lied about his identity. How do I gain my self-esteem again?
Submitted April 08, 2022 at 01:41AM by phy_phy https://ift.tt/Tmb3SzE
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