24F 28M. I’ve only been on a couple dates with this guy and we have our third date next week. We slept together the last time we went out. I met all of his friends as well. I spent the night at his house and he made me breakfast the next morning. I drank a little too much the night before and threw up in front of him. But he was so nice and caring he gave me his shirt and bought me medicine and Gatorade from the store and he rubbed my head until I felt better. And he texted me the next day after all of that. I’ve never slept with somebody this early before but I felt really, genuinely comfortable with him.
And I’m not the kind of person that dates more than one person at once when I start liking someone, but I know that because we met on a dating app nothing should be assumed. I kind of want to ask him next time if he is going to continue dating/sleeping with other people while he is seeing me, because I don’t know if that is something I can handle if we are sleeping together. I think it’s a fair question to ask right? It’s not asking for any sort of commitment, it’s just asking to give me a fair shot at exclusivity, mainly for safety and because we should be able to focus on each other. We did talk on the first date about how we are both looking for a relationship and aren’t interested in anything casual.
TLDR: When is it too soon to ask somebody if they’re dating other people and if they would consider just dating you?
Submitted April 11, 2022 at 06:51PM by Old-Tell6711 https://ift.tt/Lofy82x
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