My [26/M] girlfriend [25/F] said she would be down to be swingers but I don’t feel the same. Am I not enough?

My girlfriend and I have been together for two years now. We have a great connection and are happy together.

Since we started dating, I have been experiencing erectile dysfunction. I have viagra and cialis, and it has benefitted our relationship since I got them, though there have been times when I have run out and my lady became upset.

Our sex is pretty great in both of our opinions, and she tells me that nobody has ever been able to get her off before (she has had 5 partners in the past) though I can. In the past she also told me that sex is very personal and intimate for her and she has never had one night stands or anything of the sort.

The other day, a friend of ours suggested that we swap partners for the night for fun (we hooked up with her in the past when she was single and it was fun). Now, my girlfriend is bisexual and I’m down for threesomes with another girl, but I can’t stand the thought of her getting fucked by another man. She said she was down, and I said no. I then confronted her about it and she said that the idea of swinging sounds fun, and if we’re attracted to a couple that we’re friends with then why not, although this contradicts what she said about sex being personal to her.

I’m feeling insecure about our relationship now because I’m thinking that maybe she actually isn’t completely satisfied with our sex and would rather be with a guy that doesn’t suffer from erectile dysfunction.

Thoughts?

Tl;dr - girlfriend previously told me that sex was very personal and intimate to her but is suggesting we hook up with other couples that we’re friends with if we find them attractive. I suffer from ED and am wondering if she would rather get better sex from somebody else.

Submitted February 16, 2022 at 11:22PM by Delicious-Attempt643 https://ift.tt/LKD0sqI