Hoping that reddit can help to provide any and all opinions. I am at a loss and feel just devastated right now.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for the past two years. We have our ups and downs, but I am very happy with her. It's been the intention for awhile now that I plan to ask her to marry me in the next couple of years. I have always viewed her as one of the kindest people, someone that supports and helps me get through the bullshit of everyday.
Back up to last Thursday. I dropped my girlfriend off at the airport to depart for her bachelorette party at 4AM. She was spending the weekend with some close friends that I have met and trust. The expectation set from me was that I wasn't going to call her, so she could enjoy herself. We live together, everyone needs a break sometimes. She leaves and its a pretty tame trip up until Friday. I hear from her every couple of hours, nothing out of the ordinary.
Friday, she is at the beach with her friends, and texts me "omg I made a friend in Tulum". Nothing too surprising, she's great at building relationships. I don't think much of it. Her group ends up hanging out with this group of men that are also on a Bachelor party. They end up drinking at bar on the beach, and going out to a club later that night. My girlfriend tells me, she was completely black out drunk, to the point of not remembering. The groom to be, of the Bachelor party, starts feeling her up and making out with her. Eventually they somehow made it back to his Airbnb and the rest is obvious.
I'm upset this happened. I'm upset because I feel like her friends didn't have her back and this wouldn't have necessarily happened if they noticed what was happening.
She has acted terribly weird since she got home. She's been lying about that night, and I suspected this after hearing her stories. The information that this happened came out tonight. She clearly feels horrible, she's said this was the biggest mistake of her life and hates herself. This is why I am reaching out to Reddit. She is not someone that I ever expected this to happen, she never shows this type of behavior. She's begging for a second chance to figure this out.
I am so hurt, I spent the better part of the night shaking and sobbing. My heart tells me we can work this out. My brain says to tell her to pack her shit and leave. If this was a one time drunken mistake, should I try and work through this with her?
TL;DR: Girlfriend went out of town for a bachelorette party, cheated on me, what do I do now?
Submitted September 23, 2021 at 04:07AM by PineAppleRuler https://ift.tt/3nXZJAb
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