How do I (24F) become less emotionally invested in my boyfriend (27m) who wants a private relationship

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. He was super sweet and honestly everything I wanted in the beginning. Over time he’s become less affectionate, I usually have to initiate holding hands, hugging, dates, etc. And (tmi) he’s even stopped being as attentive in bed. He said he’s still in love with me and cares about me and that I’m overthinking. He’s very into having a private relationship, which has led to me basically begging for me to meet his friends and having a big argument with him to meet mine. He hasn’t met my family nor I his, but I really want to. He says he’s not ready for that type of commitment and that meeting family comes with pressures. To be honestly I concluded that I’m a lot more emotionally invested... how do I stop. By the way he’s not a horrible guy! Financially he is very supportive and will buy me anything I need. He says he loves me frequently and calls me often, but I also have trouble feeling fully loved because of the things I listed. How can I withdraw without leaving him completely?

TL;DR How do I pull back from boyfriend who is not as emotionally invested as I am?

Submitted May 24, 2021 at 04:14AM by confusedgal96 https://ift.tt/3fCS04U