I (25M) am dating a woman (22F) who I love very much and she feels the same as far as I can tell. I constantly feel insecure because of her upbringing. She grew up in a much more wealthy family and I want to be able to provide for her or at least keep up with her lifestyle, but I really do not make that much money maybe 45-50k a year. She has dated guys that make much more money than me and it always makes me feel insecure that I cannot take her on extravagant dates. She means the world to me, but I cannot get over this feeling that I do not provide enough or that she would be happier with someone that could afford to live the same lifestyle as her.
She has told me that it doesn't matter, but she wants to live in a big city and my current career (sciences) doesn't really have much of a place in a big city, with my credentials. I feel like I am living in inadequacy and don't have a route to stay with her when she leaves for her dream job that is only really flourishing in big cities.
TL;DR: girlfriend comes from wealthy family and I feel insecure about my own earnings
Submitted May 01, 2021 at 10:34PM by throwaway557677 https://ift.tt/3eM55IJ
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