TL;DR! If we both love sex why will he avoid it with me to play with himself? I don’t think it has anything to do with him not being attracted to me, I know he is.
This is the second guy I’ve dated who beats off so much it affects our sex life.
We dated on and off for almost 2 years as the off often stemmed from this issue or him going back and forth between wanting me around all the time and wanting his own space. the sex started out constant and great, I’ve never had complaints... if anything I often make guys finish too quickly. But we’d have sex again. I can’t pinpoint when exactly it changes but it’s pretty abrupt. I’d think we just had a weird, random week we didn’t get the chance or were too tired. But then you realize you’re having sex maybe once a week. I’m a super sexual partner. I like sex and when I’m emotionally invested I love it. I love to impress and please my partner. Like I said, I’ve never gotten any complaints. We had amazing sex, especially the further into our relationship... it wasn’t often, but it was amazing. My partner claimed to have a high sex drive as well, which I did believe, but was confused about why he wanted a girlfriend if he could handle himself all the time and never wanted to have sex with me, or thought about my sexual needs. He’d get kinda frustrated when I’d start to touch him bc he didn’t want me to push sex. I never did. He got really mad once and i kinda stopped asking after that. I’d wait for him to initiate... but that was hardly ever. He called me selfish for wanting to have sex with him more than once. He said I wasn’t thinking about what he was in the mood for, but when he came onto me I never said no, there was never a moment I didn’t want him. And we were always together, he made it seem like he never wanted me to leave. But he wouldn’t want to be intimate. I just wanted to make love to my boyfriend. My love language is physical touch. Being intimate is important to me. So why? Why would my boyfriend brush me off constantly and never want to have sex with me when he is obviously attracted to me. And still horny. Why did he choose to watch porn every single morning when he got up to get ready for work, while I was laying in his bed. Why wouldn’t he want me? He never wanted me to shower with him unless he had already had a chance to watch porn that day. Am I crazy fo thinking he’s being selfish... I don’t care about how much you masterbate. I do it a lot too... we all watch porn. But why would he choose it over fucking me? To the point he’d make up excuses to not have sex or say yes, but wait till later, and later never came... I’m just confused. Am I the only one who’s experienced this?
Submitted December 24, 2019 at 04:53AM by rereb3825 https://ift.tt/34OaibW
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