I [24F] have been with this guy [30M] for 6 months. It was great in the beginning, we talked and connected, he was unlike the other boyfriends I had and I appreciate him a lot. He is very nice to me, doesnt push me to do things I dont want to and gives me hope about our future. However, when we started dating we used to have sex 2-3 times a day which turned into having sex on the weekends and now for the past 2 months we only have sex once every week. We sleep together almost everyday but he doesn’t want to have sex because he’s tired from work. I understand that, Im not a nymph who needs to constantly have sex so I went with the flow. But one day I asked him why don’t we have sex more often he said that I need to dress more feminine. I dress for comfort so its usually jeans or tracks. I tried to be more feminine for him, bought jewellery, new clothes and perfume. That worked for 1-2 weeks. Then we were back to having sex once a week. Yesterday I tried to ask him again if there was a problem and if he was seeing someone else but he denied. Instead he said he uses his hands and porn when Im not around. He’ll watch porn and jerk off but not have sex with me? Im utterly confused because i cant seem to effectively communicate with him about my needs and dont want to seem to pushy about sex. He let me have his instagram and phone password and doesnt stop me from going through his phone at anytime. I have tried to spice things up but they only seem to have a temporary effect. What do I do??
TL;DR: how do I get my boyfriend to have sex with me more than once a week??
Submitted December 26, 2019 at 01:31PM by rumneat https://ift.tt/361O9rV
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