My [27F] husband [30M] of three years is going to Tokyo for work in one month. I found out that he has looked up a website for an escort agency there online

I found it on his phone because he had forgotten to close the tab, apparently. Also asked him about it and he said that he had come across some Japanese porn actress (we're both okay with each other watching porn sometimes, so that's okay) and had searched for newer videos of her only to discover that she'd retired from that to become an escort which is why he had searched for the name of that agency, he says.

To be honest, I'm not 100% sure if I can trust him here. It does seem weird to me that he'd look it up just out of curiosity. Or maybe I'm just being unreasonably jealous, not completely sure. My husband always had had a thing for Asian and especially Japanese girls, and we're both white so that has sometimes made me felt like I wasn't his first choice since I didn't fit his preferences in that regard.

He'll go in February and be over there for about three months. Am I right to be worried or do I just have to trust him? How can I deal with this?

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tl;dr: Husband has looked up an escort agency from Tokyo online but claims it was just a coincidence because he had researched an actress. He'll also go to Tokyo for three months soon which has me worried.

Submitted December 27, 2019 at 02:09PM by These-Rub https://ift.tt/2ZsePzQ