My boyfriend and I have been together some time over a year. Maybe half way through the relationship he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. Even before he cheated I saw messages between them that were inappropriate, as in them discussing their relationship and being together. He admitted to me that he was still in love with her at the time and we agreed that he would cut communication. Well he didn’t and some months after that conversation he cheated on me with her. Not only physically but he would send her flowers, gifts and they were discussing actually being together.
I found out about the cheating some months after it happened. And he seemed genuinely sorry about the situation and stated he wanted to be with me. We have been working to make the relationship better and I have been working to forgive him which has been hard but every few months, it’s seems I find out he reaches out to her in some way. I think he’s still in love with her. He says he wants to communicate with her because she has always been an important part of his life and he likes to make sure she is okay. But I feel after he crossed the line with cheating he lost the chance to be just friends with her.
Am I wasting my time being with him? Should I just let it go? Am I wrong for asking him to cut off someone who has been in his life before me?
TDLR: boyfriend cheated on me with ex and he keeps communicating with her after I asked him not to. What should I do?
Submitted April 27, 2019 at 05:51AM by cocoaprincess6 http://bit.ly/2XUAgYl
No comments:
Post a Comment