I (F23) have been talking to this guy (27) who is probably the most respectful man I have ever met. Ever.
And because he is so nice and respectful, I have no idea what to do with it as I am extremely use to abusive relationships.
I’m in a time in my life where personal growth has been astronomical and I am 1 million times healthier mentally all around.
He wants me to be his girlfriend but I don’t know if I want that. I’m scared. We have been speaking for about a month. I made the first moves to talk to him, to get his number, and to hang out. But he ended up liking me A LOT really quickly.
I’m afraid of ruining something that could easily be my healthiest and strongest relationship.
I’m afraid because he’s 27 and had one girlfriend for 6 months. And that was when he was 22 (so lack of experience in [long term] relationships) I’m afraid because he is not fluent in English and speaks Spanish. While he can get around just fine and I understand what he is saying, I am scared there will be a lot of miscommunication between us.
Idk I’m just scared to fall in love and open myself up and start over with the possibility that I ruin everything.
We have already spoken about how I am afraid and he just reassures me that it’ll be okay and the easiest relationship I’ve ever had.
Idk. I haven’t worried about ruining a relationship before because I didn’t have the knowledge I have now about how healthy relationships should look like.
TL;DR: Met a respectful man and he’s so nice that I’m afraid of fucking this entire thing up. Causing me to not want a relationship.
Submitted March 27, 2019 at 11:14AM by qtpi-nikki https://ift.tt/2TZZNBL
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