Tl:dr My boyfriend has recently moved in with a girl and I cannot stand her. She has no boundaries with him, she’s overfriendly and she tries to join in our phone conversations.
My boyfriend lives in a 3 bedroom apartment with his good guy friend and there’s a third bedroom for a roommate. About 8 months ago my boyfriend’s really nice female roommate, let’s call her Alana, who had the 3rd bedroom, had to move out. She was great, I really liked her so this sucks.
They found a new roommate, Natalie. From the beginning, I had a funny feeling about Natalie. My boyfriend talked about her a lot and showed me a pic of her (she’s pretty). I almost immediately got the vibe that he was much more interested in her as a person and possibly was attracted to her. She's very much 'his type'. Anyway, I ignored my feelings.
Then it was Natalie’s birthday and she was upset because the guy she was seeing flaked on their plans, so she was alone on her birthday. My boyfriend went out and bought her a cake and a card. This made me really upset, because on the first birthday he and I were together he didn’t get me anything, let alone a cake and a card - and he had known Natalie for about 5 minutes, and she isn’t his girlfriend!
Other than that, she’s always hanging around my boyfriend, both inside and outside the apartment and I just get the sense that she has no boundaries and she’s over friendly with him. When he calls me, she often tries to take his attention away by speaking to him when he’s on the phone so she’s almost a third person in our conversation. It’s incredibly irritating and it’s happened so many times that he has to go outside his apartment to call me because otherwise she joins in!
My boyfriend has loads of friends, both female and male and I think most of them are great. I don’t have a problem with him having female friends at all - his are lovely. I just get bad vibes from this girl and I don’t know why. I feel really strongly that I don’t want him hanging out with her, and I don’t really want him living there anymore but I don’t want to cause problems in our relationship.
Submitted March 28, 2019 at 02:56PM by EmotionalFroyo https://ift.tt/2Oxvmgm
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