GF (F) 29 lied about a guy because she was scared of how I (M 25) would react

TLDR at bottom. I've been dating this girl for a three months now. a couple weeks ago she was drunk and so was I. heres where it gets risky. The guy she cheated on her ex with, she still keeps in contact with him. (not her ex but the guy she cheated with) he hits her up every blue moon. This time was different. She was tilting her phone while texting which I pay no mind too but she kept doing it so I glanced over and heres what I read.

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Him: hey

her: I don't even know what to say I'm emotional right now.

her: I weirdly thought about you today.

Him: whisky and hugs?

Her: I would but I'm at his

Him: all good keep ya head up.

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So the next day I ask her about him and she says "he's an old friend who hits me up randomly"

fast forward to tonight, she's telling me about herself and says "yeah I used to hit guys up for emotional support whenever my BF wasn't paying attention to me, but I don't do that anymore" I said was it with one of the guys you cheated with? she said yes. Turns out it was the guy that was texting her that I night I was with her at 2am.

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So I asked her about the messages and she lies. She doesn't tell me exactly what they say to each other. I asked her one final time to come clean, she gets her phone out reads the messages and she lied again. and I tell her "you left the part out where he asked for drinks and hugs, also where you said "I would but I'm at his"

After I dropped her off at home she said “ I lied because of how jealous you get about me and other guys” which is true I do get jealous and I’m currently in therapy and also seeking a psychiatrist for help and coping mechanism for anxiety. I completely understand she was probably scared of my reaction, I never got physical or yelled at her for my jealousy I’d just get sad and shut down and would want my space. Since then though I’ve been making good progress with combating my issues.

I’m not sure where to go from here with her now.

TLDR: GF OF 1 MONTHE LIED TO ME ABOUT A COMVERSATION SHE HAD WITH AN OLD FWB SHE CHEATED WITH OM HER EX. WHEN I COMFORTED HER SHE LIED ABOUT THE CONVERSTAION BECAUSE SHE WAS SCARED OF MY REACTION BECAUSE I GET OVERLY JELOUS.

Submitted March 27, 2019 at 06:24AM by I_Feel_Like_Kanye https://ift.tt/2WpDDWh