Hello everyone, thanks for taking time to read my post. To start out I want to say I’m beginning to think my sister is a raging narcissist. Somehow she is the victim in every situation, even when you do something nice for her. Asking her for a favor is somehow victimizing her. She never apologizes and never thinks she’s wrong, for anything.
The issue at hand is my sister is a serial dater. She has a new boyfriend every couple of months, sometimes dating in the same circles. She has a pattern of dating these guys for a few months, they don’t live up to her unrealistic expectations or she doesn’t communicate properly which ends up in her exploding and going bat crap crazy level 1000 and then breaking up with them. She calms down a couple days later and wants to resume dating these men but they’ve seen bat crap crazy level 1000 and decide to just move on. They usually start dating other people within a couple weeks. This leads to my sister telling everyone that they cheated on her and they were abusive.
I actually believed her the first couple of times she told me she was getting stalked until she started sleeping with one of her ‘stalkers’ again and was mad he wouldn’t date her seriously.
Now, my sisters good friend was stalked my a psycho. This guy was breaking into her house, showing up at her work, and random places when she was out. My sister has now decided all of her ex boyfriends are all stalking her. None of these men are stalking her.
She accuses them of stalking her if she sees them out driving their cars on the highway or the other side of town. She saw a man she dated briefly three years ago looking for his girlfriends dog on her street so now that guy is stalking her too. She saw another ex on the same highway exit as her, now he’s stalking her. She’s had a few guys she dated reach out to her and ask her to stop badmouthing them and calling them abusive and cheaters and now all of a sudden they’re stalking her too. When I tell her that no one is actually stalking her and that she needs to stop bad mouthing these men, I’m unsupportive.
I think my sister is out of her mind and I’m not sure what to do. I’m actually thinking of just going low contact with her for various other things she has done directed towards me but I genuinely feel bad for these guys being called these things when they’re not. How do I get across to her to stop it?
TLDR; sister is accusing men of stalking her when they’re not. How do I get her to stop?
Submitted November 14, 2018 at 10:38AM by Rose_luck https://ift.tt/2QHnOI5
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