My (20/f) boyfriend (21/m) of one month is spending Thanksgiving alone, should I invite him to my family dinner?
So my boyfriend of one month was spending Thanksgiving alone (maybe with some friends) since the rest of his family lives far away. We’re in college but my family lives relatively close (~1 hour away), so I invited him to our family dinner. Beforehand I asked my mom, sister, and roommate if they thought this was fine. The problem is that another friend said it seemed a little weird to invite him since we’ve only been dating for about a month and that it was really soon. I was already worried about that, but now I can’t shake that feeling that it was weird to invite him. Any advice/ general opinion is 100% welcome. Also, should I talk to him about my concerns about me feeling weird about it or, since I already invited him, should I not say anything? I feel like he likes me a lot and the feeling is mutual, but I still feel awkward to talk to him about stuff like this.
TL;DR: I have reservations about inviting my new boyfriend to Thanksgiving and need advice/reassurance
Edit: Thanks for the kind words everyone! Here’s a weirder follow up question: How weird would it be if he spent the night? My parents just told me they don’t want me to drive back to college on Thanksgiving night, so that means he would have to stay overnight at my house. (If it matters, we have an air mattress/guest bedroom he could stay in.)
Submitted November 15, 2018 at 10:12AM by most-likely-asking https://ift.tt/2BbASAg


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