So the past few months have been big for me and I want to show my appreciation to this community. But let's begin from the start.
Backstory: once a 200lb bodybuilder, full of confidence and was a red piller without even knowing it. I fucked rings round myself and didn't give a shit about LTR.
Eventually I got in to an LTR (approx 10 years ago) . When we broke up it destroyed me. It took my RP and replaced it with a needy jealous BP. For the next decade it would impact me. I was worthless in my own eyes.
Fast forward to a few months ago. I'm unhappy with life in general, surprisingly. I've stopped lifting for over 6 years. I've let myself go. I hate my job (I'm very well qualified with a degree, high in demand and paid well). None of this made me happy unless I had someone to spend it with (BP kicking in). I was dating a hot single mom because it helped me to validate my existence and, well, it was easy. But most of all, deep down, I hated myself for the 'man' I'd become.
The main points:
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I was dating a single mom. I fell in 'love' . Yup.
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I was letting my boss walk all over me. Not defending myself.
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I gave up really.
What have I done (where am I now, wtf is the point of this post) :
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Dumped the single mom.
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Told my boss what I deemed acceptable (no you funny cunts no sexual harassment) and handed in my notice (this was massive for me) . I can pick up a job tomorrow, I at least have the career side down.
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Been hitting the weights and losing fat ever since. Down 8lbs and looking better than I have in a long time.
The message:
I am the happiest and most proud I have been in myself for a very very long time. I feel like a man again. I do not need anybody. Its reflected in my attitude. Friends and family are happy to see 'the old me' back.
I can't express how much the advice on here has helped. TRP helps you look at life from such a different angle (the real one). Thank you to all.
Read what's on here. Be smart. Take your own path. Make your own fucking mind up. Be a man.
Submitted July 27, 2018 at 05:24PM by Harkin1987 https://ift.tt/2mRspdj
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