Boyfriend [18M] says it's unfair/sexist that I'm [18F] getting an old car from my family when my siblings got it when the car was newer, and I should say something. I'm just happy that I'm getting something.

relationship length: 7 months

So when my brother was 18 my parents bought him a new car (Honda civic), it was 8 years ago. When my sister turned 18 (5 years later) he bought another car for himself and passed this onto our sister, who after 3 years got a car for herself and passed this one onto me.

My boyfriend says this is evidence for favoritism by my parents that I'm getting a used car with 100K miles while it was a new car when my brother used it. He also says it's sexist because brother got a new car while it was passed onto me and my sister.

I'm honestly just happy that I don't need to buy a car and I can drive this one while in college. Many kids my age don't get anything from their families so I appreciate them doing this for me and I actually don't care that it's a car that was passed onto me by siblings. It's just the order of birth and older siblings always pass their stuff to you as you all get older, isn't that just a rule of life?

I think my boyfriend acts in a very entitled way and I don't like this. Is this an incompatibility between us? Or just different families? He's an only child so I guess he always got new stuff from parents.

TL;DR: Boyfriend says it's unfair and sexist that the old car that my siblings used is passed onto me and I should say something to my parents. I think that's entitled. Is this a fundamental difference and incompatibility?

Submitted July 28, 2018 at 03:47AM by OwnMortgage2 https://ift.tt/2mObgBp