My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years. I (23f) feel as though my boyfriend (24m) speaks to me like i am his child or something and I’m wondering if these things would annoy anyone else or if it’s just me. For example, I’m in college and everyday after class he wants me to call him and he then asks me things like “so what did you learn” “tell me one thing you retained”. Or if i didn’t do well on a test he’ll respond with “so what are you going to do differently next time” “how will you do better”. And he’s often giving me advice i didn’t ask for them later complaining that i don’t take his advice or listen to him. And today we were on the phone and i didn’t hear something he said because the call was breaking up. I asked him to repeat himself and he told me to “listen up”. It came off kind of aggressive and i told him that. He didn’t seem to understand why that phrase bothered me. I just feel like a lot of the things he asks me, really the way he asks them, sound like something my father would say. So is it just me or would comments like these bother anyone else?
TL;DR! I feel like my boyfriend talks to me like a child and i need to know if I’m overreacting
Submitted April 04, 2022 at 08:58PM by Unhappy-Tangerine792 https://ift.tt/G1Oyusz
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