Long story short me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. Really great relationship besides the fact that he gets irritated whenever I put on makeup. He thinks I’m beautiful naturally and doesn’t think I need makeup at all. He thinks makeup/fashion or anything that has to do with changing your appearance is superficial and fake. Mind you, I only wear eyeliner, blush & sometimes concealer. No foundation, mascara, don’t fill in my brows at all. Really natural. My go to is always a “no makeup” makeup look and I NEVER do anything else besides that. I just enhance my features which he has said is pointless because I “look the same”. Recently we got into an argument because I like to go on Pinterest and look at makeup looks & fashion looks. He said it’s superficial for me to be into those things and that I am always looking at pinterest because I want to “look like other people” which is not the case at all. I didn’t know how to respond to anything he said. I asked him the other day if I should do something new with my lips like a new lip color or anything and he threw a whole fit saying that it would make him really uncomfortable if I were to wear lip stick and he wasn’t around. I don’t know how to say to him that liking makeup and fashion isn’t superficial and how it’s crazy for him to be uncomfortable with me wearing lip stick while not around him. Don’t how to say anything because his rebuttals are always something that makes me think I am in the wrong...
tldr; boyfriend thinks being into fashion/makeup is superficial and said he is uncomfortable if i wear more makeup than my usual “no makeup” look and i am not with him throughout the day
Submitted August 25, 2019 at 05:56PM by lovesowl https://ift.tt/2L6G5x6
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