We’ve been together about a year and a half. Last night when he came home from the store, he said “hey babe, I got you some sweet tea at the store” to which I replied (with the inflection of Maebe from Arrested Development) “marry me!”
He immediately whipped around and said “why did you just say that to me” and I said “huh?” And he said “what the fuck am I supposed to say to that?” And I was kinda taken by surprise so I just said “um.. I don’t know. I’m sorry?” And then hit play on the tv. And then he screamed “no you’re fucking not sorry” and got belligerent asking over and over what I expected him to say. “I was just trying to be cute, I thought you’d just be sweet and say Ok baby!”
And he said “so what then we’re just fucking engaged?!” And proceeded to yell for a solid five minutes about how I only said “marry me” to try to make him mad. To clarify, I’m not a confrontational person at all and was immediately trying to diffuse the situation by apologizing and trying to just move on. Also, I’ve never said anything to purposely anger him and I’ve never tried to pressure him into talking about marriage.
I asked him to please stop yelling at me and he yelled “I’m not fucking yelling” to which I kind of scoffed at and he mocked me laughing, said “fuck you,” and went and got his shoes and keys and left. He came back maybe 40 minutes later and I was in bed and he came in and said “I’m sorry for yelling.” And I just asked if we could talk about it later. We still haven’t really talked about it because I don’t know what to even think. He has a quick temper but it’s usually just when he’s trying to do something and it won’t work. It’s never been directed at me like that.
Like, this felt 100% insane and came out of nowhere. What do you guys think I should say?
Til;dr: jokingly told my boyfriend to marry me, he went off the rails and screamed at me for ten minutes for purposely making him angry and we still haven’t discussed it
Submitted August 28, 2019 at 06:11PM by iwontletlove https://ift.tt/2UhHFQL
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