We've been married for around 2 years. But been in a relationship since we were in our early teens. She's my bestfriend and I'm crazy in love with her. But recently we've gotten into several fights when she's been drinking. A few months back we had probably our biggest fight yet. She had gotten extremely drunk. To the point where I found her passed out in the front seat of our car. After panicking for a few moments thinking I had lost her as she was slumped over the steering wheel I got her inside. Now normally I trust her with all my heart. But something about it was off. So I looked in her phone. I didn't find anything extremely bad. Just a picture of her ass sent to one of our childhood friends. Along with her telling him she loves me. But she wants to be in a polyamorous relationship. It set me off. So I woke her up and confronted her. I knew my wife was Bi she's been that way since we first started dating. But I felt like she wasn't being honest with me in our relationship. This evolved into a huge fight. A lot of things went down. But to shorten it for this post she said,"I can't be with a cis straight guy in a monogamous relationship." The fight ended after a while. A week later I was still sensitive about it and another fight happened. This time fully my fault. She left and stayed at her parents home for a week. When she came back things felt normal. Its been about a month. Last night it happened again. Now my wife has posted on nude subreddits before and I've never really cared. But last night it just kinda got to me. I didn't confront her. I just started ignoring her when she was telling me the comments she was receiving. It boiled over into another fight. It's her body, she can do whatever she wants with it. But I've gotten really insecure in our relationship. This time she told me, "I can't be in a polyamorous relationship, and I can't show my tits annomusly online! I can't do anything!" And "I wish you weren't so obsessed with me and clingy." Eventually after fighting for a little longer we passed out. I got up to go to work and things had cooled. She told me she loved me and would try to change. I don't want her to change. Just to be happy. But I just don't know what to do. If her happiness comes from being with other people should I suck it up and just let it happen? I've been at work 4hrs and I can't focus or think. My mind just going crazy to try and figure out what's going to happen. So any advice at all would be great. Posting on mobile. Sorry for formatting and ranting.
Tldr; Recently been told multiple times she wants a polyamorous relationship and that I should stop being so obsessed and clingy.
Submitted August 26, 2019 at 07:39AM by Dapperdanfan https://ift.tt/2NzUu7z
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