So I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now. Things were going great, up until his ex decided to reach out to me last week. She contacted me on Facebook because she saw that we were in a relationship with each other and her friends/family told her that she should inform me of my boyfriends past actions. She wanted to let me know that she has no feelings for him, just that I should “know” what he’s really like. She proceeded to tell me that he was controlling, manipulative, etc. All events that went down in their relationship but what really got me is this one particular situation. They hadn’t been intimate for a while (yeah i know do i really wanna know about my boyfriends past sex life??? not really) And basically that my boyfriend would masturbate in another room. Come to find out that she finds out he has a fake instagram account and is following one of her family members & a bunch of other porn accounts. I was really taken aback by it when I read this and I thought... no she has to be just doing some mean ex stuff. I brought it up to my boyfriend in which he confirmed it was true. He said the family member is basically a porn star and “she’s not even a real person” I really don’t know how to feel about this but it’s just all sorts of messed up.
tldr; boyfriends ex told me about how he masturbated to his ex’s family member’s instagram and now i’m just uncomfortable
edit: people seem to think i’m uncomfortable with him watching porn. i’m not. it’s the fact that it was his ex’s relative. despite this being a past thing, i am still uncomfortable.
Submitted August 25, 2019 at 06:45PM by fonfisoals https://ift.tt/33U9Fyp
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