My husband and I have been together for 11 years now. Our relationship has always been great. Our relationship has always been fantastic. Up until about 4 days ago anyway. I want to give some background info that will be important later. My husband and I don't make a lot of money. we both make 36k/year working in public education. we also have a newborn that's roughly 2 months old. on top of all of this, we have a mortgage to pay, a dog and etc. I work a lot also I get home around 4 every day and work until 7 on lesson plans normally. This doesn't leave much time for anything else besides taking care of the baby.
We have had quite a few unexpected bills the past month on top of the newborn. Such as our ac going out, hot water heater died and a major repair to our garage. Well due to all of these bills we had to cut out budget back as much as possible. My husband sold his dream car about a month ago because money was so tight. He was pretty upset about it but we just didn't have a choice. We split all bills 50/50 unless its something specifically for the other person like a car or etc.
Well, I noticed him acting strangely a few days ago and I finally decided to push the issue. He just looked at me and said I feel fucking miserable. I feel like I have nothing. I sold the one thing I had which was my dream car because this fucking kid is costing me a fortune and this shit fucking house keeps needing repairs. I am so sick of being fucking poor but I can't do fucking anything because you're married to the god damn job.
I have only ever seen my husband angry once before this. I was blown away by just how mad he was. He wouldn't even speak to me for the rest of the day.
TLDR: husband about lost his mind the other day and is bitter that were poor and I work a lot. I don't know what to do. I am sorry if this is all over the place because I'm still just shocked about how everything happened.
Edit: so my husband handles a lot of the baby stuff. He picked him up after work, takes care of him and feeds him until I am done with lesson planning then he cooks and cleans every night.
Submitted June 02, 2019 at 02:28PM by Worriedwife723 http://bit.ly/2wzZ4cw
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