So a few months ago, I met this guy (L) through a friend and we started texting a lot after that. We clearly hit it off and I really like him. We started hanging out casually but we’ve never had a conversation about being exclusive, although I expressed that I wanted to take things slowly. Before we got serious, I had to leave for a month long music program, and while I was there I met another guy (M) and I slept with him. The thing is, before this I was a virgin and told L so. (He was really cool about it and said we could wait until I was ready) After I got back home, L and I starting continued talking, and last night we officially became a couple. Do I have to tell L that I’m not a virgin before we have sex? L and I were talking the whole time I was away and I feel weird about it but I also think it would hurt his feelings in an unnecessary way.
tl;dr I was talking to a guy and told him I was a virgin, but then I had sex with someone else. Do I have to say anything now that we’re in an exclusive relationship?
Edit: Ok, y’all are right I should tell him, but I don’t really know how. He has some pretty big jealousy issues (doesn’t like that I have male friends, reads my texts over my shoulder and asks about anyone with a guy’s name) so I’m afraid he’ll get really mad. What’s the best way to tell him?
Submitted June 27, 2019 at 08:45AM by Hesitatinglawngnomes https://ift.tt/2Lp99Br
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