I’ve had a couple people ask me for an update post, so here goes.
ORIGINAL POST: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/c08zu1/girlfriend_21_is_still_communicating_with_ex_fwb/
TLDR of last post: “girlfriend is still snapchatting ex fuck buddy. I brought it up to her and now she’s hiding it from me and I don’t know what to do”
She was still acting sketchy, but I never brought it up to her because I was terrified and wanted to forget it. It was eating away at me for over a week. Anyway, I went to her house this morning to help her out with something and she was wearing one of the guys shirts. She had already had this shirt before we started dating, but I found it weird that she chose to wear it after telling me she loved wearing mine “because she loves feeling close to me”.
Anyway, I went through her phone again. Fuck me, right? Their old conversation was deleted, but since Snapchat never deletes saved snaps I was able to look at them. There were some very sexually charged, descriptive messages from as recently as four days ago. My eyes were shaking so I didn’t fully process what I was reading, but I processed enough to get the general gist of what was going on. I woke her up and confronted her about this. We got into a long argument about it. Since she rode with me back to my house, I was going to have to take her back. Her friend ended up coming to pick her up.
In our argument, I kept asking “why” and she could only tell me “I don’t know”. I eventually got it out of her that the reason she was still talking to him was because of the “fuckboy-ness” and the “chase” he gave her.
She keeps texting me saying how she’ll “fix this” and how sorry she is. How happy I make her. Blah blah blah. Saying that she didn’t want him to talk to her like that, how he was harassing her. I’m not buying it. She told me about our relationship that “if she wanted to stop it, she would have” which is everything I needed from her.
The sad part is I’m worried about her, even after what she did. Of course this was only less than a day ago as of this post. I’m still in shock from the whole thing. I’ve never broken up with anybody before so I don’t know how to process this.
Before anybody says I’m an asshole for looking through her phone again, I’m 100% glad I did and I would do it again in a heartbeat.
TLDR; gf was snapchatting ex sexually explicit messages. I snooped, found them, and broke up with her. Emotionally lost and I don’t know how to handle it. I just needed to vent to the internet about it. I feel so fucking stupid.
Submitted June 26, 2019 at 12:09AM by throwawaymydudes113 https://ift.tt/2J6TofL
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