My gf (29F) met a new male friend (47M), he asked if she would have sex with him if I (27M) wasn't in the picture.

I am new to Reddit and my previous post about this situation got removed. I now made a new post because I couldn't find how to change the title, sorry about that.

Me (27M) and my girlfriend (29F) are in a relationship for three years now, things are working pretty well lately. We are working on ourselves and we are very happy in the relationship right now and our sex life is amazing.

Now the following, she and this guy had such good conversations with eachother that they decided to be friends and meet eachother two weeks after the first meeting at his place. He did a lot of effort to meet her and coocked her special meals. So, again they had deep conversations about life, relationships and the books they both read.

Then after talking about relationships and sex and him which also lies in the context of her work, he asked her if she would have had sex with him if I wasn't in the picuture. She answered no! He was just curious he said. And she said to him how much she likes and loves me. I appreciate her transparacy and honesty very much. She said that it meant nothing and that the see eachother as friends and that he wants to meet me. I said that I understand it either, and I did.

She told a friend about him. In previous chats that my gf showed me I saw that her friend asked if he secredly didn't liked her. And my gf responded that he asked if she would have sex with him. Her friend responded that she should cut contact with him. My gf said that her advice was very stupid because she missed context.

After this morning I started to think about this, she talks with him lately on WhatsApp. It makes me uncomfortable today thinking about it. So I focused on myself today, read books, did work-outs. Now my question, what do you think of this situation? I am overthinking this right? Thank you in advance for reading this and taking the time.

TLDR Girlfriend (29F) met a new male friend (46F) at work were she helps people. He is has his life straight and we think both he is an interessting guy. While she was hanging out with him at his place, he asked her if she would have sex with him if I wasn't in the picture. She told me not to worry and I did not. But now it is bothering me, am I overthinking and not rational or what?

Edit1:Thank you for al your previous replies, I had not expected that.

Ok, I changed my mind. It is impying that he wanted to have sex with her. I am going to confront my gf, I already got some tips for this, any more?

Edit 2: I have not written the situation very precise. So I have made some changes along the way. I also over heard the saved phonecall that I had with my gf that evening. After he asked her if she would have had sex with him if I wasn't in the picture, I asked my girlfriend why he asked that and she said that he was just curious if she would have gone to bed with her if she didn't had a boyfriend. So yes, he's clearly testing the waters.

Submitted November 14, 2018 at 02:27PM by Purplejacket25 https://ift.tt/2qNcpLr