Strategy For Finding Attractive Girls With Good Personalities

I can't help but be amazed at how often it is true that really beautiful girls often have less desirable personalities. And (sadly) the opposite seems to be true about ugly girls (they far more often have good personalities!). At least some of the reasons behind this are obvious (ugly girls can't just rely upon looks... they have to use personality too to stay in the game for a high value male. Also, the pretty girls may have had less practice at just being interesting or developing their own ideas).

There are probably other reasons for this too, but the question for men is what do we do about this? No one wants to be with a girl with a really toxic personality. Even for short term its just draining. And of course no one wants someone who is ugly either... So, my strategy is that maybe we should look for girls who are attractive but in more of a "unique" way... In other words, attractive to you, but perhaps not so much to others. One way to find these is to think of all the "odd" traits that you don't find unattractive but that other men probably would... For example, big eyebrows, short girls, slightly (slightly) over weight, dark hair, dark skin, hairy arms, hairy legs, (ok, maybe not too hairy! hahaha), freckles, small breast, etc. For me, none of these things are deal breakers, but for other men they probably are. And so, if you start looking out for girls that have some of these "forgivable negative physical traits" but are also still "attractive" (in a more universal sense) (symmetry, eyes, universal facial proportions) I believe you are more likely to find a girl who is less hit on all the time and thus better personality!

Note that this is not so much about lowering your standards (though at times, that may be necessary) but rather about acquiring a relationship (or fling or whatever you are both into) with a girl that is more likely to have an attractive personality in addition to physical attractiveness (at least to you)..

Anyways, just a theory. But what do you'll think?

Submitted July 29, 2018 at 09:29AM by RaccoonJanitor https://ift.tt/2Lv93ti