I called my 30 year old girlfriend too spoiled because she has always lived at home and had her parents do a lot of things for her? Now her family is mad at me?

I go over her house a lot (which is always her parents house because thats where she has lived all her life) and see her parents buying all the groceries and giving her their credit card to buy things for them and her. She doesnt seem to have any major expenses and lacks some life skills (cant cook, has never done yard work or mowed the lawn). Recently, I said that her lack of independence bothers me and she got rather upset. Later, she told her parents what I said and now they are mad at me for commenting on her upbringing. In their mind, they are trying to make her life as easy as possible before she moves out. In my opinion, she should be doing more things on her own to learn before she goes on her own. I do not see her moving out of her house in the near future. Would seeing this bother you if you want a serious life down the road with her? Im curious.

TL;DR: I called my girlfriend spoiled because of her upbringing and now her family is mad at me?

Submitted January 03, 2022 at 01:34AM by No_Split1745 https://ift.tt/3mSq6Gu