Is it normal for me (20F) to feel uncomfortable that my boyfriend (24M) met a milf and told me he wants to try having sex with her eventually?

Hi all, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. First off, I have a previous post on here discussing how he constantly wanted me to have all these traits of his female best friend that he also wants to have sex with, but calls it completely platonic that he views her that way. Every single day, for around half a year he also tried to convince me into having a threesome with her or with literally any girl possible. Now, he’s met a new girl while out playing poker every week and he describes her as “so milf” and obviously started talking about how he wants to try and tick off having sex with a milf so badly (she’s like 40).

He is such a fun person to hang out with, but constantly puts me down and makes me feel like shit with all these sexual remarks about all the women he hangs out and is close with. It hurts me so much and makes me feel worthless to him despite how much he tells me he picked me for a reason to date.

He also believes that it’s superior to want to have sex with as many girls as possible because apparently that’s what animals do in the wild to increase genetic diversity and population numbers. He says he’s monogamous, but apparently believes that it’s a stupid concept. But also doesn’t want me to have sex with other people, just him.

I know part of my pain and uncomfortableness comes from being cheated on twice in the past. However, I do believe that this is somewhat NOT normal for ANY girl to go through right? It literally makes me feel like he doesn’t love and cherish me as his girlfriend despite what he says. Is it normal as a girlfriend to just be told how much her boyfriend wants to do all these sexual things with other women but just can’t because he’s dating her?

TL;DR: Boyfriend met a milf while playing poker that he sees almost every week while I’m not there. He also has expressed that he really wants to try and see what having sex with a milf feels like. Is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable over this?

Submitted November 01, 2021 at 07:44PM by jojiismydaddy https://ift.tt/3buTH2N