I (F18) have had two best friends (both F18) since we were freshman in high school (I'll call them friend A and friend B). We used to spend a lot of time doing things together and hanging out. They were great friends up until about 2 months ago when they started blowing me off. We worked through some things and I though we were good. Well, it was my birthday on Wednesday and we were all going to go up to my friends cabin to spend the night there. I could only stay for 2 hours bc she was busy until 5 pm and I had other things going on around 9pm. I told friend A this and she said we would reschedule for over 4th of july so we could celebrate my birthday then. Well turns out friend A and B spent my entire birthday together. They hung out at friend Bs house, got lunch, etc. I didn't even here it from them either. My boyfriend asked me if I was with them for my birthday. I checked to see if he was right that they were hanging out and friend A had her location off. Of course knowing my luck, I ended up being at the same restaurant they were getting lunch at (I was picking up a free birthday dessert). They tried to hide where they were sitting but friend B came up to get her food right next to me and pretended she didn't notice me. Neither one of them said a word to me the entire day besides a happy birthday text. They were also posting on their stories and ig showing they were together still blowing me off. Since then, friend A has called me and left a voice mail saying she hoped I had a great birthday and asked if I was okay bc she hasn't heard from me in awhile. Friend B has not done anything. Part of me wants to go off on them telling them that was a terrible thing to do and I'm done with them but another part of me wants to just ghost them. I know if I try to do that though friend A will keep trying to figure out what happened and she will try to fix the issue. It sucks bc they were my only 2 close friends in high school and I got 2 months left of summer before I head off to college. I don't really have a lot of opportunities to meet other people before then. I want to have people to hang out with this summer so I don't feel so alone but I don't want to be a doormat either. I don't really know what to do with them so any advice would be appreciated.
TL;DR! - My friends are blowing me off and I don't know if I should try to salvage things or not.
Submitted July 02, 2021 at 09:34AM by donut4528 https://ift.tt/2UnFbEI
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