So my boyfriend prioritizes everyone but me. His friends have always been prioritized in the past. Recently he got this new business opportunity, for that he has to work with my school batchmate, I've known that girl for 2 years to know she always wants what she can't have. She's been dropping hints at him and he doesn’t think it’s flirting and says she is just being polite I've told him to keep his responses short and professional and he is doing that but he gets a little friendly here and there (like liking a meme and sharing a joke about work things) which I feel is giving her a wrong signal but according to him if he doesn’t do that, she might take the it otherwise and it could create problems in the future as she is kind of an investor andhe has to maintain a good relationship with her if she feels threatened it could be bad for business. He's giving her a lot of attention like quick responses and stuff because they are working together on the project.
He's been busy with a lot of ongoing work at the site and has to travel around 50 kms on a daily bases for work and I've been constantly asking him to meet me but instead he goes with with his friends he does meet me and makes plans but he is giving more time to friends. We fought on this, I told him I feel bad that he chose to go out with his friends rather than hanging out with me, to which he said that he doesn't like hanging out at my house as he doesn’t just wanna sit and cuddle all the time we both are at the starting point of our career, can't afford a car to roam aroud and are living with our parents but he only wants to go with me in a car, otherwise no and public transport is not an option for both of us.
He doesn't like going out on a two wheeler, when I suggested we go on a date, he says he doesn't have resources all the time like a vehicle when infact, before this business started, he made a plan to open a bottle of wine and celebrate but never followed through. A lot of plans for dates have been going out like that.
I don't know what to do or what to think.
Tldr, feels like he's prioritizing everyone but me.
Submitted July 25, 2021 at 02:54AM by Monophy96 https://ift.tt/3rAyawL
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