He just walked out the door for a meeting without looking at me or saying goodbye. We got in a fight today about money. He has a pretty good paying job, but has incurred quite a bit of debt so most of our money goes towards bills. We’ve been married for a year this week, and for the past 6 months I haven’t had a job. I was in school full time, as well as getting my EMT certification. While doing that he told me it was okay and he could support both of us. I have since graduated both things, moved across the country for him and spent a couple months studying for NREMT exam while we temporarily lived in a tiny town for his work. He started to get upset with me for not having a job, which I understood. We relocated again for his job, to Arizona, and have been here about 3 months. Since getting here I have been searching for a job, and going to interviews but again, it’s a fairly small town with not much opportunity. Last week I cut my loses and started working for my dad, $25hr part time. It’s been 4 days since I started the job and my husband again today yelled at me for not having worked for the past 6 months. I just broke down crying and kept telling him how sorry I was and that I’m trying to be better and I don’t know what else he wants me to do. At this point I feel worthless. I just got my college degree, became a certified EMT, am working towards going to nursing school, started a new job this week, and I still feel so incredibly worthless. What am I doing wrong?
TL;DR husband has been mad at me for not getting a job, now I have one and he’s still mad at me for not having one before.
Submitted June 03, 2019 at 11:49AM by benniesbabe http://bit.ly/2Wkvib5
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