My mother and I have been fighting for years. She's raised me by herself since she had me at 19, and we've been through a lot together. But lately she's been saying she can't handle our arguing anymore and she wants me to move out. I don't have anywhere to go really - if I really had to leave, my grandparents might take me in for a year or so, but that would mean going to my 4th high school, and I've only got two months of school left, so it would be really hard to move right now. We love each other a lot, but she's not coping. We've both been dealing with mental illnesses for years, and I was recently forced to come off my medication and she thinks that I'm ill again, and that's why we're not getting along. It's very hurtful, especially as I feel like she's trying to take the easy way out. So many parents deal with far worse- drugs, violence, crime etc, but still make an effort and she thinks kicking me out of home at such a young age with no job is best. I've suggested family therapy, but she's against it, and she won't seek help for her issues (I go to therapy weekly). Personally, I don't think me moving out is the solution but she keeps insisting I either move out. Any advice?
Tl:dr- Unwell teenager. Mother wants to kick me out.
Submitted June 24, 2019 at 03:48AM by mommyissues2019 http://bit.ly/2YcHk2Q
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