This sunday is my mine and my boyfriends one year together
At the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend didn’t make much money. With a balance of rent, groceries, he didn’t have much spending money leftover after each pay. I made a bit more than him and had cheaper rent so whenever we would go on dates I would pay. This wasn’t a huge deal to me, of course it cost me a bit but I understood and knew he was looking for better work. I wasn’t dating him for his money.
Within last few months, my boyfriend found an amazing job for the summer while school is out, he makes more than I do now and we were both happy.
But now that he’s come into more money, he’s pretty reckless. We both smoke weed and usually he would run out and have to wait until next pay to buy some more, but he’s going through it like mad now with more money and i’m not even sure if he’s sober most of the time.
But because of all our small dates he couldn’t always afford, we made a deal back before he even got this new job, that our monthly anniversaries wouldn’t be anything big (ordering a pizza, seeing a movie) basically we would spend the day together and spend little money, but we wanted our one year to be a real date, we planned on going to a fancy restaurant and watching the fireworks together at a local garden.
When my boyfriend got paid last friday, I reminded him to save some for our date the following sunday.
He didn’t quite listen, he spent a night with friends, and bought his weed. I got at him again and reminded him that I really wanted to do this with his for our one year. I can afford to pay for two people when we were just seeing a movie, but I took more shifts so I could afford to take myself to our special night, I can’t afford him as well.
A couple days ago he ran out of weed, and was complaining how he wanted more but I begged him to just save money and if he wants any of my stack he can come over Wednesday (I have work monday and a funeral tuesday) so was offering as soon as I could.
Well, my boyfriend was with a buddy last night who doesn’t smoke weed but loves his beer, but my boyfriend must of gotten pretty wasted like night because he posted on his snapchat of him smoking a joint, and I knew he was out. He had to buy more, when I begged him to save.
I’m going to confront him today after work, but is it worth it? What do I say? I’m really hurt because we planned this for so long and now he won’t be able to afford it. I feel second priority to his weed right now.
TL;DR : Since getting a new job my boyfriend has been reckless with money. We planned a special one year anniversary date and I reminded him to please save his money as we been planning for months, saw last night he used that money on weed and i’m not sure if I should confront him
Submitted June 24, 2019 at 10:43AM by aleracmar http://bit.ly/2IDUwZg
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