I love my girlfriend to death. Shes moved in with me until she resumes her uni studies in a couple months time. She has no job so I provide fully for her. We get along great, we share the same interests and I consider her my bestfriend.
I'm not the easiest person to get on with, I have anxiety, I'm kind of stupid, I struggle to say what I mean, I don't always clean the house, I feel like sometimes I am inconsiderate but she loves me all the same.
However lately she has gotten harder to be around. She gets unnecessarily angry over the smallest of things, but when she upsets or angers me, I immediately forgive her and we move past it, but she cannot offer the same courtesy for me. We argue and I feel like I am groveling for her to forgive me for hours. It's wearing me down and I'm growing tired of it.
The other day she threw my water bottle down the stairs, splitting it making it unusable. She said sorry straight away and I told her not to worry. She kept apologizing and I said it's really no big deal, then she turned it around and got upset that I didn't wait for her to come up to bed, which is why she threw the bottle down stairs. So I then had to spend the next 20 minutes apologizing.
Recently we argued over the fact I don't like carrying or using a wallet. This has turned into a 2 hour drama. Over a wallet. To her it's a big deal, but to me...it's over me not wanting to carry a wallet. I try to see her side of it, but to me it's just so petty that I can't be sincere in my apology, despite trying. To me this conflict is stupid, to her it's not. I have no problem with her being angry at me, but what I do have a problem with is how much of a pain it is resolving it. She knocked a plate of food out of my hand and I forgave her instantly. She thew a remote at my face by accident. I forgave her instantly. Why wont she forgive me over not wanting to carry a fucking wallet??
I feel like she creates mountains out of mole hills. She gets overly angry at things I wouldn't.
What do I do? Am I just oblivious to her feelings? Does she have anger problems? I need help.
TL;DR I feel like I forgive my girlfriend almost instantly, but I spend a lot of time groveling and apologizing until shes okay with me again
Submitted June 02, 2019 at 09:00AM by SuperSupes http://bit.ly/2wAs2c0
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