my (23F) boyfriend (28M) says he expected me to be able to seduce him more. Is it irrational that this conversation kinda hurt me?

We have been rusher for almost 2 years. Today we were driving around and I asked him if there was anything he thought about me when we were first dating that he now knows isn't true about me. It turned into a really good conversation. but one of the things he said is that I'm not as "sexy" as he's used to. He went on to explain that all his exes would like purposely make themselves more sexy to seduce him when they wanted to have sex. I'm super awkward in general but especially when it comes to sex so I usually just ask him if he wants to.

I know he wasn't trying to hurt my feelings with this comment and was just making an observation, but it kinda hurt my feelings. He's also made comments in the past about how his longest relationship partner was better at sex than I am (because I stupidly asked).

Is it rational to be hurt by this or am I overreacting to an answer to something I asked?

Tl;Dr my boyfriend told me I'm not as sexy as his past partners and it hurt my feelings.

Submitted April 30, 2022 at 08:09PM by justbeingme0000000 https://ift.tt/calonXL