My ex and I had a terrible marriage, we were only married for 4 years then divorced. Since then I have only tried to speak with her concerning things like our divorce, co-parenting, money etc..
Our daughter is away at college, not far enough away that she can come home on weekends or extended holidays easily. Since being away my daughter has grown very independent and likes to go to the city nearby for concerts.
The issue is that her mother is controlling, she makes our daughter have the Life 360 app so she can track her constantly. My daughter turned off the location services. She is also on her bank account so she can withdraw and deposit money.
This all came to a head this weekend when my daughter came home for a small family event. I was dropping her off at her mom's place. I left and turned around halfway back to my house to return. Her mother has locked her out of the house and removed all the money from our daughter's account.
According to my ex (If she wants to act like an adult, I'm going to treat her like one, she is no longer welcome in my home?). Uh, what?
So after banging on the door for an hour and under the threat of calling the cops, she let my daughter in for 5 minutes to get some essential stuff.
We left and she is now staying/living with me. I had small savings account for my daughter which I converted to checking for her so she has some money while away at college. We are heading to the store today to get anything else she may need for her room at my house.
I do not like it either that my daughter is growing to be an adult, but I accept it and encourage her to experience what she can while at college. She is a good person, nice, social, constantly on the Dean's list. I am having a hard time understanding why my ex is clamping down on everything. Can she not accept that our daughter who is 21 in a few months is an adult? I need advice navigating this situation. I have grey rocked my ex after we divorced because her personality is like a cheese grater. So dealing with what seems like a worse version of my ex since our divorce (15 years agoish).
TL;DR Exwife still expects our daughter to be an obedient and always tracked kid when she is a young adult and kicked her out.
Submitted October 03, 2021 at 04:38AM by Top_Swordfish_6798 https://ift.tt/3a2JlGs
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