So I [F19] have this thing where I want to be in a relationship but also not. I feel as if I ever get into a relationship it would be doomed and I would mess up somehow. What scares me into getting into relationships is that I have a feeling that if I were to ever get into a relationship I would start to change and become really insecure about myself, which would end up making them lose feelings for me.
I've never been in a relationship so I can't say that for sure but i feel as if that's likely to happen. I'm normally confident about myself but if I were to ever talk to someone I like I start to doubt myself and get negative. When I like someone they can easily take over my thoughts if I'm not careful which is why I never seeked out relationships ever before, even if I want one. So far I haven't been searching for a relationship but keeping open to it.
TLDR: Is having negative thoughts about a relationship alreadly ending a me thing I need to fix or is it that I just haven't found the right guy yet to be in a relationship with ?
Submitted August 21, 2021 at 10:44AM by Randomque_ https://ift.tt/3kgRVWY
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