So my fiancé and I have been together for nearly 10 years. We’ve been together since we were 19 and we are both 28 now. He wants to sign a prenup before we get married and I don’t. He said he wants to protect what’s “his” but the way I see it, I’ve supported him through everything, from when we were two young kids working part time jobs to having careers. I’ve been his number one supporter until he got his dream career. Now he obviously makes much more than me. And I’m currently still finishing up school. We have 2 kids together. And I feel like it’s unfair to me. He said we can split whatever assets we share but his saved money, his salary , 401k , all of that is his and only his if we were to ever divorce. I feel it’s unfair. As he worked hard to get there, I made sure he was set up okay at home and I took care of the kids. He doesn’t believe in having to give me alimony. I’m kind of offended. He thinks he got where he was at on his own and I’m offended because I’ve been his emotional support throughout all of it. I have always made mine, his. I was always there to help financially without questions. I even helped him get a car because I have good credit. What do you guys think? How should I handle this situation?
TL;DR : my fiancé wants a prenup and I don’t because I feel we have built everything we have now together. What should I do?
Submitted August 06, 2021 at 12:00AM by throwingthisawayeh https://ift.tt/2X5Hi1n
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