Not exactly a problem I guess but yeah. My (20m) gf(20f) says part of the reason she wanted to start dating was because she wanted to take care of me and help me. I know it’s not the only reason (I would die if it was) but it still makes me feel weird. I know it’s normal and a good thing to have a partner that gives a shit about you, and that’s something I should be grateful about, but something about it makes feel bad I guess. I’m not really sure why though, and I don’t want it to cause a problem so I was hoping for advice. I don’t normally like it when people try to help me or “pity” me for lack of a better word. A lot of why I post on Reddit is cause I don’t have to worry about that as much. But since this is my relationship, I should probably try to not make it a problem like I have a habit of doing (I’ve gotten better at it, I swear) so hopefully you guys sorta have some experience or idea on that kind of thing
Tldr: gf says she started dating me partially out of wanting to help, and it makes me feel weird
Submitted August 22, 2021 at 02:09PM by thegreatqueef https://ift.tt/3ycmqlA
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