TLDR: Mom got caught cheating and I do not know how to proceed due to my legal ownership of families wealth and vegetative brothers well-being.
Hey everyone! I posted some thing here somewhere around three years ago on my failed proposal to an ex girlfriend. I got plenty of comments that were extremely helpful and I am living is the best version of myself years later with someone who respects me!
Now to the matter at hand: Mother got caught cheating and I do not know how to process.
I honestly don’t even know how to even write this thing out… Do I start with details? Does that even matter? I guess I should explain some personal life details on why exactly this is so impactful
Parents of been married about 31 years and have known each other for about 35 years. There are three siblings in the family, the youngest being an individual with severe disabilities Such as being in a vegetative state, breathing tubes, feeding tubes etc.
Dad is a truck driver who works close to hundred hour work weeks and has made a great living off of it into the six digits.
Mom is a stay at home mom.
I am a college student who assists with the care of brother. Same for the sister.
Without getting too much into the weeds of things, the reason that I am living at home it’s mainly because my name is being used to create an LLC so that handicap brother could receive all benefits. I am also the only individual who can assist with lifting my brother as due to Covid, The nurses are no longer allowed as my brother would certainly die. Sister assists in various ways as well.
Now to the crux of the issue…Mom was caught by accident planning a party in another country. She had texted my dad’s brother by accident in which, my uncle, contacted my dad. He began to snoop about a week ago and found out that she had been in contact with family friends in order to get contact information for an ex-boyfriend. As the days went by, we found more and more information and found out that they sent been going on for well over a year, which leads to a separate problem that took place in 2017 which, regarded the same individual.
Did not find any conversations as the WhatsApp message was clear although his name did appear. She was originally intending on going out of the country to fix paperwork in order to be able to sell properties that we own. However, she would be gone for about two weeks and due to Covid, we were very concerned exactly she was going to be doing.
Had a very visceral and real moment with my dad last night and which a lot of truth came out that he had never spoken to me about his personal life. It is something that I will remember for the rest of my life as it was just to humans talking about how existence truly pain in this stupid world.
Overslept and by the time I woke up, they had apparently already had a discussion. Things seem calm and I was quite confused. I managed to confront my dad for about 30 seconds later on in which he essentially just told me to drop it… He would trust and my mom and see where it goes from there…This is a man who has sacrificed more than I will ever know to go above and beyond and provide not just a roof but luxuries to me and my family. A man who endured brutal living conditions as a child and as a young man in order to get to this country.
I feel completely confused, angry, and of even consider taking this extremely far towards the other individual and even my own mother. I have since calm down but I am just in a place of confusion and trying to settle down but I do not see a future where I am able to just move on
My family on my maternal side comes from a long lineage of pastors, my great grandfather being one of the individuals who began the evangelical sect of Christianity in this particular country. I was raised extremely fundamental and while I still believe, I have my skepticisms on religion itself as I see it more like an individual relationship rather than some blanket term used to define your political stance
I just cannot believe that a woman with so many blessings, knowing how difficult life has been with my brother, knowing how difficult life itself can be… Could commit inFidelity?
I can already foresee people saying just move out and well… That is going to be quite a difficult proposition legally, financially, and and terms of my duty towards this family. Was hoping other individuals could Pitch in with any ideas opinions or whatever else
Submitted August 02, 2021 at 03:40AM by TroubledSon73121 https://ift.tt/3C9szT5
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