Is this weird of my boyfriend or am I overthinking?

TL;DR: boyfriend too excited to answer woman delivery driver, told me he wanted to see what she looked like and got mad I found it weird.

21F 23M

Today I was with my boyfriend and we ordered food for the both of us. The driver called him and it was a woman, and he told her to leave it on the porch. She called back and asked him to come because he had to sign, he said okay and I told him I could go sign for him since he was literally naked and I was almost fully clothed. He said no, I'll sign, I want to see who it is, I've never heard this person before. I was like ??? I'm right here by the door I can sign it, lol. He said no he wanted to see who it was.

I asked if it was because if it was a woman (he has a weird obsession imo, he acts like hes never seen a woman in his life) and he was like no, no, no. I moved past it and I was eating and he brought up he got into arguments like that a lot with his ex. I asked what he was talking about and he told me his ex would get upset when he would want to meet the women delivery drivers, and if it were a man he would send her to answer the door. I got a little upset, and asked him if he thought it was weird that he was so eager to see what some local delivery driver looks like, literally a random girl. He was like well, it's sorta weird. I lost my appetite and THAT is what upset him. He got his laptop and told me to play on my phone, I asked why he was upset and he asked me to leave. I was like ??? once again and he said he will look at other women but wont cheat on me and that he will say it again and he will do it again. He kicked me out of his house.

I just want to add I think its totally normal to look at other attractive people in public but I found this kind of weird, and perhaps I shouldn't of let it get me this upset and have power over me, but I'm curious what you guys think. He also reassured me that she wasn't attractive which makes me wonder what he would've done if she was.

Submitted August 21, 2021 at 05:36PM by Past-Success-2792 https://ift.tt/2WeKYO6