Hi everyone, it’s my first time posting on Reddit so please don’t judge.
I [21f] have been dating my bf [22m] for a year. Everything is great besides small fights here and there, nothing serious. A little TMI is coming so I’m sorry in advance.
I know that he likes when I shave down there and every time I do shave it he goes down on me. The routine is I go down on him, he goes down on me and we have penetrative sex after. Just so you know: It takes FOREVER to shave my whole body(plus all the razor bumps, ingrown hair and irritation), but every time I do it it’s worth it because I feel more wanted and he just can’t take my hands off of me. However this time after I went down on him, he just turned me around and we started to have sex. There was no foreplay so sex was not the most enjoyable. After that I asked him to do missionary but after couple of minutes he said he was tired and “why can’t I just go on top and come” which turned me off completely. So after being on top I wasn’t in a mental state to enjoy anymore so I stopped and told him “I can’t because there was no foreplay” he agreed and I laid down next to him to which he said “it’s ok it doesn’t always have to finish the way we want”. Just so you know it was the first time we had sex and he didn’t finish, it happens to me a lot more often.
Next morning I was just grumpy from this whole situation and left home. We had a small talk so I don’t think he noticed that I was upset.
I guess my question is how to stop being bitter about it and how to bring up the fact that I need a lot of foreplay even after I give him head. My problem is also I can’t talk about it right away and it builds up to the point of now when I have no one to talk about it.
TL;DR : how to ask my bf to go down on me/have more foreplay and solve the issue right away instead of holding it in and being bitter about it for days.
Submitted August 20, 2021 at 08:23AM by Leather_Candidate332 https://ift.tt/3mgqzmp
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